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clarissa jane
model | actress | writer

soft ramblings
the way we grow in the wild & the wise through forsaken nostalgia
Forgiveness
When you think about forgiveness, what comes to mind? How do you describe that feeling of forgiving someone? Whether it’s something...
clarissa jane
Jun 63 min read
Crossroads
Every so often, there comes a time in life where we’ll reach a crossroads. Some roads are more material; choosing between different job...
clarissa jane
Aug 30, 20242 min read
You Are What You Tell Yourself
No matter what you’re looking for, you will find it. Tony Robbins does a little test that I absolutely love. He actually sat with Theo...
clarissa jane
Jun 3, 20243 min read
Silver Linings
When a young toddler stubs its toe for the first time and cries as if their entire foot has just been detached from their body, it is...
clarissa jane
May 22, 20242 min read
Silence
We’ve all heard the term “Were you silent or were you silenced”. As humorous as the origin of the quote, it’s a very very real thing that...
clarissa jane
Mar 7, 20242 min read
"It's Just Words"
A person’s word. Seen by some as a seemingly menial notion of character, yet arguably the most important. We’ve all heard the term “A...
clarissa jane
Jan 26, 20243 min read
Urgency
At this point in my personal experience on this Earth, there seems to be no time more urgent than being in your 20s. Urgency. A toxic...
clarissa jane
Jan 23, 20243 min read
Comparison
The phenomenon of comparison is one of the most inconsiderate tricks the brain will play on you. It’s such a common, easy habit to form...
clarissa jane
Dec 15, 20232 min read
a letter to my inner child
Imposter syndrome around the concept of getting older is something that I experience every year. I recently turned 25, and now that I’m...
clarissa jane
Dec 2, 20236 min read
are you, you?
To exist is to feel. One of the most beautiful parts of the human experience is the capability to feel a vast range of emotions and how...
clarissa jane
Nov 1, 20233 min read
99%
When I was 18 years old, I had a chat with an old friend and something he said to me at that time has never left my brain, and I think...
clarissa jane
Sep 12, 20233 min read
comfortable chaos
Being comfortable in the chaos. A wildly common ideal, yet excessively under-discussed. A topic that I’ve personally struggled with...
clarissa jane
Sep 2, 20233 min read
come as you are
So far in life i’ve discovered a more firm understanding when it comes to expectations. Expectations for myself, others, situations,...
clarissa jane
Aug 15, 20232 min read
we're all just big kids
I was always that child that never wanted to grow up. I never wanted to leave my childhood behind. My dream was to live with Wendy,...
clarissa jane
Jul 29, 20234 min read
perception
There comes a time in every person's life where you become self aware enough to the concept of other people perceiving you. Not just...
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Jul 19, 20234 min read
the art of living selfishly
The term “selfish” has a bad reputation. Granted, it is inherently negative in terms of the lack of consideration for others when it...
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Jul 13, 20234 min read
main character syndrome
I know that you know what Main Character Syndrome is, but I also have a hunch you might have the wrong idea about it. It is commonly used...
clarissa jane
Jul 13, 20235 min read
"he definitely secretly loves me"
Let’s be honest: How many times have you heard “I’m just not looking for a serious relationship” or “I’m only trying to keep things...
clarissa jane
Jul 13, 20234 min read
to walk in love
Insecurity. Ego. Two concepts that go hand in hand, yet appear to be on opposite ends of self-perception. "I know I'm perfect, I don't...
clarissa jane
Jul 13, 20233 min read
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